Know How Girlfriends Fit In

HE DOESN’T GO OFF YOUR RADAR FOR LONGER THAN 72 HOURS.

Now, he’s your boyfriend.  No vows have been exchanged.  You need to accept that he’s still a single act.  But still, HOW DO YOU KNOW?  After 3 days your feminine instincts begin flashing red lights. . .another girlfriend. . . married. . .in an accident.  You don’t want to be with a guy who’s working at how you’ll fit in.   If he lives up to the 72 Hours Rule, he loves you.  If not, there are ways to change that. . .

MAKES TIME FOR YOU, INSTEAD OF FITTING YOU IN.

Once upon a time I had a boyfriend who would take me out for lunches when he was on his way to the local dump.   I was the last rung on his ladder.  It turned out he had a wife.

 He “Loved Me Not.”  And yes, I dumped him

It’s nice to be invited.  But set your clock.  How many ball games, everyday errands or mixers with his friends are you willing to attend?  Will it make you feel that he just likes having you around?  Does it make you feel like YOU have his attention?  Clock it.  If you have to cajole or plead for a one on one for dinner or any activity, something’s wrong .You’re not getting any RESPECT.  You yearn to be special.  But you’re not yet.

 


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