Loves Me, Loves Me Not
Well does he? If you’ve been left hanging, try this formula. Wait 20 minutes. After that, cut bait and go on with the rest of your day!
When BF is befuddled by your behavior, explain that the 20-minute rule is one you apply to EVERYONE. Even him. If he understands and lives up to your expectation, count it as a “He Loves You.” Notice and appreciate his courtesy. Bubble over with how glad you are to see him.
HE ALMOST ALWAYS ARRIVES ON TIME.
This quality is a habit of a considerate guy. He’s treating you right. Let him know it’s important to you and it will continue.
By the way, his promptness is a characteristic that will help take him far in his chosen career. It shows employers and clients they are receiving polite respect. Chalk up a “He Loves You.”
HE RESPONDS TO YOUR REQUESTS OR BELIEFS WITH CONDESCENDING OR SARCASTIC STATEMENTS?
Does he say, “You’ve got to be kidding me. . .You’re out of your mind. . .get a grip” or make other comments that are put-downs? If he does, he likely loves himself more than he loves you. You’ve got a guy with ego enlargement.
If you’re aware, you can deal with it. Begin by telling him your thoughts are as important as anyone’s. Until you begin getting more respect, count this as an “I Love You Not.” Do nothing. Don’t be clingy. No cards, Emails, texts or calls.
Give it some Time to see what happens.
